Probably nobody has completely clean hands. Are you suggesting that only perfect people can attempt good work and all others are suspect? What about redemption?
I’m saying women can be toxic. They can treat can treat men badly. They even claim to be feminists. But other women will never admit this issue is with women.
Instead they will say the real cause is the patriarchy.
All I can say is I’ve never, or at least can’t remember any mental health issues I’ve had or heard about men having caused by the patriarchy. Short term things like getting angry and fighting yes, but it’s only been short term shit that’s been resolved. Actual guys struggling with mental health that is due to a non family memeber from a person has always been due to women. But that isn’t a real issue is it? There must be something else causing it because women can’t ever be in the wrong.
Honestly fuck it. No one cares. This is why feminism doesn’t work between sexes. Men can’t have issues with women or the culture that women are responsible for. Women just want to be on the right side and they want men to be on the wrong side.