Having bounced back to reddit a couple of times, I haven’t had that experience. Talking here seems to lead to more thoughtful responses. Also some small minority on reddit love the unexplained downvotes of disapproval for perfectly well intentioned, polite posts, and there’s less of that on Lemmy.
As an example, I started c/52weeksofbaking (copied over from reddit). Its a place for amateur bakers to challenge themselves, try new things, and share their successes and failures. There’s zero reason to downvote posts there. I stickied a request for people to not downvote in that community. It’s currently sitting at 20 upvotes and 18 downvotes.
We can make fun of people for caring about fake internet points, but if we want to get more people to use lemmy and create content, we need to create communities that feel welcoming.
Kind of like people insulting OP in this thread, if you specifically ask people to not downvote something, they will downvote it. I don’t think it’s a serious sign of ill will.
I like how kbin works in this regard - while downvotes are available, kbin doesn’t federate downvotes from other instances. So sometimes I’ll have a post that looks like it has a mild positive score and someone will say “not sure why you’re getting downvote” and I’m “huh?” Blissfully unaware. I think that while up/down voting can play an important role in moderation, voting and karma it didn’t quite work out the way reddit intended originally. Downs are so often used as a way to lash out at someone, and very highly rated posts are often just some silly joke vs. something truly constructive. It’s annoying and makes me roll me eyes to have one of those conversations where the other person downvotes each reply as soon as you post it.
I always find it funny. When I respond to someone and point out the flaws in their argument and they don’t respond but I get their one immediate downvote, I consider it a victory. They can’t respond with any kind of logical argument but also they’re upset about their inability to defend their point. It’s like two victories in one.
How fucking dare you. I’m going to remove the labels off your canned goods so you don’t know what you’re opening till you open it.
Go for it.
It’s all beans anyway
What type of beans are we talking? Baked beans, black beans, pinto beans?
Yes.
It took way to long, upvoting every comments to finally get to some beans
Evil
No way bro! Can’t get me, I have a canned goods identification dog!
